tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post1202389519490387874..comments2023-10-14T02:59:49.232-07:00Comments on Never Burn Bridges- My Curious World: HAIRCUT! (Alex- blue)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-4249813553636937702010-05-09T13:01:23.249-07:002010-05-09T13:01:23.249-07:00I'm glad you came to visit! I had the same exp...I'm glad you came to visit! I had the same experience, even though I haven't talked about it much here. I used to identify as Bigender and had two names, but didn't have a concept of having two identities. Everything was a mix things and I never was really able to separate them, nor did I want to either (give my history of being abused for dong so). <br /><br />My bf (at the time) "out'ed me" from the closet, so to speak, to a mutual co-worker and to make a long story short I had an identity crisis. During this time I came across the term trigender in a forum and the more I thought about it, the more i realized that there was more to just feeling like I was a guy sometimes and a girl sometimes. <br /><br />It took several months of "getting to know" the different sides of me before I realized that feeling like I was one gender or another (or a mix) just wasn't good enough. I wanted others to know how I was feeling inside. Since then, it has been a learning process, figuring out how to be a male and female. I feel like I'm 4 right now, trying to figure out how the world works and how I fit into it.<br /><br />I hope to see you around again! I makes me happy to see that others can pull strength from my worlds. No one else is standing up for us mutigenders!Bex (Vicky/Alex)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14060080112084054007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-34941142974353656652010-05-09T01:39:26.067-07:002010-05-09T01:39:26.067-07:00Hello There! I just came across your blog through ...Hello There! I just came across your blog through a livejournal link. I am bigender, and my name is Ander, and sometimes I am Dot. I really enjoyed finding your blog because I haven't met too many other multi-gender folk who have different names, visual presentation and identities for each of their genders.<br /><br />I relate deeply to what you say about still understanding yourself to be one person. I am definitely always the same person! Sometimes I feel like a fraud because having two names and personas implies that I am two different people, while it's still always the same ME inside my head.<br /><br />I also appreciated when you spoke about the blending of your genders. I experience this too, but I have denied it because it made me uncomfortable to admit it. To the outside world, I never let them see a mix, but internally, I often feel blury and it makes me uncomfortable! Since reading your experience, I have realized this and am already feeling more comfortable about it.<br /><br />Lastly, the concept of identifying as more than two genders is really exciting to me since, believe it or not, it never occurred to me! There are more parts of me that could potentially be named, right now only feelings I've ignored because they didn't fit into my existing situation- I'm realizing all of this now... I will have to think about it more and consider if they have enough force to become their own personality. Anyway, thanks for the helpful words and good luck on your continuing journey. I will pop by from time to time to say hello!<br /><br />Love,<br />AnderAnderhttp://ander@mhtv.canoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-4310164968589342652010-05-03T18:45:52.638-07:002010-05-03T18:45:52.638-07:00thanks guys. :-)thanks guys. :-)Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143966112440193186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-41790783313333113182010-05-03T12:31:17.591-07:002010-05-03T12:31:17.591-07:00Love the cut. Looks great on you.
Love ya.
P.Love the cut. Looks great on you.<br /><br />Love ya.<br /><br />P.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-88422431995645630312010-05-02T22:04:18.197-07:002010-05-02T22:04:18.197-07:00Just catching up on your blog.
The funny thing ab...Just catching up on your blog.<br /><br />The funny thing about a mirror is that when you "LOOK DEEPER" at the image before you - you realize the mirror is providing a reflection of your soul and your inner beauty. When you truly ACCEPT THAT IMAGE, you acknowlege your beauty and realize what gifts you have to share with the world. That's the CONFIDENCE building up from your gut BEX!<br /><br />Your passion, your journey to unlock your soul, your unquenchable thirst for truth, justice and a better world ARE TRULY AN INSPIRATION (thanks for reminding us B-Orvis).<br /><br />May your "new reflection" give flight to Alex, and confidence to the others within - and balance to your soul!!!<br /><br />BTW - Me and the Mr. ABSOLUTELY LOVE the haircut!<br /><br />ALL MY LOVE,<br />DADDADnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-24423440693911119112010-05-01T18:36:59.823-07:002010-05-01T18:36:59.823-07:00thanks kitty! no need to say sorry. :-) I like co...thanks kitty! no need to say sorry. :-) I like comments!Bex (Vicky/Alex)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14060080112084054007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-81227493968233777982010-05-01T17:53:07.468-07:002010-05-01T17:53:07.468-07:00Sorry, blog lurker crawling out of the woodwork he...Sorry, blog lurker crawling out of the woodwork here - I just wanted to say that haircut looks great on you! :)Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354487592599431272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-43321622335243758302010-04-30T18:05:13.824-07:002010-04-30T18:05:13.824-07:00Generally I prefer Orvis (as friends I met after 2...Generally I prefer Orvis (as friends I met after 2007—including my super-awesome, I'm going-to-marry-her-girlfriend—call me), but I'm never really letting go of Brian. As I'm sure you know, some people have an impossible time changing what name they call you.Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02310228948533782832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-66390974057667324692010-04-29T23:04:26.233-07:002010-04-29T23:04:26.233-07:00btw... is it orvis or brian? :-/btw... is it orvis or brian? :-/Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143966112440193186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-44380213121216046732010-04-29T22:51:37.944-07:002010-04-29T22:51:37.944-07:00Awww.... thanks brian! That means a lot to me! :...Awww.... thanks brian! That means a lot to me! :-)Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12143966112440193186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10358210.post-18019503387706974072010-04-29T19:54:59.088-07:002010-04-29T19:54:59.088-07:00That's an awesome haircut. I'm kind of je...That's an awesome haircut. I'm kind of jealous. For a while I had a faux-hawk going on and it was great, but I couldn't keep it up.<br /><br />You look really happy in those pictures. Rock on Alex.<br /><br />--Orvis (Brian Evans)Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02310228948533782832noreply@blogger.com